How accurate are the numbers we use when talking about veteran suicide? In this clip from The MisFitNation, retired U.S. Navy veteran and author D. Paul Fleming argues that the official count does not always capture the full picture—especially when deaths involving overdose, risky behavior, or unclear intent may not…
What does flying combat missions teach you about leadership, trust, decision-making, workplace culture, and building high-performing teams? In this episode of The MisFitNation, we sit down with Lt. Col. (Ret.) Ron Cooper, founder of The Cooper Culture, to explore leadership lessons forged during a 22-year U.S. Air Force career that…
What do you do when you are a single mom trying to hold everything together—work, family, finances, your goals—and you are terrified of making the wrong decision? U.S. Army Veteran and leadership strategist Caressa Bell answers that question with practical advice rooted in her own experience as a young single…
What does it take to chase a dream for 14 years and finally become a published author? In this episode of The ToosDay Crue, we sit down with author, podcast host, entrepreneur, professional wrestler, certified personal trainer, and internet radio station owner Chad Martin to talk about his unconventional journey…
What happens when you survive some of the most dangerous places on Earth… only to discover that the fight isn’t over when you come home? Sean Carberry returns to The MisFitNation for a raw and deeply personal conversation about war, identity, PTSD, addiction, and the dangerous ways we sometimes try…
What do you do when you know you need to make a bold decision—but fear is still louder than your confidence? For U.S. Army Veteran and leadership strategist Caressa Bell, the answer is simple: Close your eyes and jump. Not recklessly. Not blindly. But with the understanding that sometimes you…
What happens when life gives you no time to feel ready? For U.S. Army veteran Caressa Bell, that question became very real when she was a young soldier, a single mother to a four-month-old son, and received just one week’s notice to deploy. Fear was present. Uncertainty was real. But…
Caressa Bell grew up in a small community outside Chicago near Great Lakes Naval Base, where military life was always around her. By her junior year of high school, she had already made a decision that would change the direction of her life: she was joining the military. Caressa originally…
When someone has been inside the suicidal thought process, D. Paul Fleming says the conversation needs more empathy—and less judgment. In this clip from The MisFitNation, the U.S. Navy veteran and author of A Date With Suicide explains why he does not see suicide as simply a selfish act. Speaking…
In this clip from The MisFitNation, U.S. Navy veteran and author D. Paul Fleming challenges the way veteran suicide is often discussed—especially when the conversation becomes centered almost entirely on firearms. D. Paul argues that focusing too narrowly on one method can distract from the larger issue: why so many…
Retired Fire Lieutenant and EMT David Dachinger has one message every first responder needs to hear: You do not have to carry it alone. Firefighters, EMTs, paramedics, police officers, dispatchers, and veterans spend their lives helping everyone else—but that does not mean they should suffer in silence. In this powerful…
A two-time Grammy-nominated music professional, retired firefighter/EMT, cancer survivor, author, and first responder advocate shares what happens when the helper becomes the one who needs help. Spotify / Apple Podcasts Description: What happens when a man who spent more than two decades running toward emergencies suddenly finds himself facing one…
After surviving Stage IV cancer, retired Fire Lieutenant and EMT David Dachinger says his definition of a “bad day” completely changed. During cancer treatment, even something as simple as finding one food that tasted good became a victory. That experience recalibrated how he saw adversity, gratitude, time, and the value…
When a veteran finally opens up, don’t interrupt. Don’t immediately offer advice. Don’t listen just to prepare your response. U.S. Navy veteran and author D. Paul Fleming explains one of the simplest—and most important—ways families, friends, leaders, and fellow veterans can support someone carrying trauma: Just listen. As D. Paul…
🔥 SOME STORIES DESERVE A SECOND CHAPTER—AND THIS WEEK WE'VE GOT THREE GREAT ONES! From amplifying the voices of female Veterans, to surviving a heart transplant, to fighting for Veterans who don't know what benefits they've earned—there's a lot coming your way! 🇺🇸 SUNDAY – SUSAN L. COMBS RETURNS! This…
🔥 WHAT A WEEK ACROSS THE MISFITNATION! Recovery. Faith. FBI SWAT. Reinvention. Loss. Mediumship. Psychological horror. Yeah...we covered some ground this week! ⚓ SUNDAY – MATTHEW STATES Rich welcomed U.S. Navy Veteran Matthew States, founder of Divine Chosen Ones and Soul Shine Struggle. With more than 24 years of military…
Army veteran Cory Gold survived a parachute failure during Airborne School that left him with a broken back and traumatic brain injury—but one of the hardest parts of his story happened after he left the Army. For FOUR YEARS, Cory lived with physical and psychological pain without knowing that VA…
What do you do with years you were never guaranteed? On this episode of The Toosday Crüe, we welcome Gaylen Wilson, heart transplant survivor, 20-year sobriety veteran, Certified Thriving Relationship Coach, entrepreneur, and co-creator of The Monument Method. Gaylen’s life hasn’t been one comeback. It has been a lifetime of…
What does resilience really look like? And what does it take to rebuild your life after serving your country? Susan L. Combs returns to The MisFitNation for a powerful conversation about her new book, Wonder Women: The Untold Stories of Female Veterans—a collection that gives female Veterans the opportunity to…
Jason Murff never expected Sailor Jerry to come calling. Then the Grill Your Ass Off team received an email asking if they would create a BBQ sauce. Jason jumped on a call, heard the pitch, and said yes—but only on one condition: If they were going to build the product…
Social media can make entrepreneurship look like nonstop success. Jason Murff says the reality is very different. Some days you’re winning. Some days you’re getting crushed. The key is to keep moving, rely on your team, rebuild the kind of community you had in the military, and focus on the…
What happens when the military career you planned ends unexpectedly—and the civilian world tells you the experience you spent years building somehow “doesn’t count”? In this episode of The MisFitNation, U.S. Navy veteran Diana Ocasio shares her powerful journey from military service to entrepreneurship, identity rebuilding, and helping other veterans…
Veterans often leave the military thinking they have to start over. Diana Ocasio says that’s the wrong way to look at it. The skills you already built in uniform—leadership, organization, administration, logistics, communication, research, problem-solving, systems management, and more—can have real value in the civilian marketplace. Through Mission to Monetize,…
